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How you "get"or achieve orgasm will depend on whether you are male or female, and also whether you are with a partner or not.

For solo individuals, touching genitalia in ways that feel best to you will generally lead to the easiest orgasms. Females have a clitoris, men have a penis, there is also the G-spot and the P-spot (see the related links below for more information about them).

With a partner - if you are a straight couple, engage in the normal procedure of intercourse. For males, achieving orgasm like this is fairly easy. For females, a little trickier. Try to get the male to use his penis or other parts to stimulate the places that you know feel good. Tell your partner what feels good to you, don't make them guess. Talking about it to each other can also help arouse you both.

If you have trouble achieving orgasm or experience pain during intercourse, see your health care professional to be sure there is no physical problem, as pain-free, enjoyable sex is the goal.

During sex you'll experience it just by having intercourse as long as there is plenty of foreplay and stimulation. The brain is a big part of helping achieve orgasm, it is good to think about what is happening and to imagine or fantasize what arouses you. Fantasy is normal and encouraged. This is why many people enjoy sexually explicit videos, etc. leading up to the sexual act.

During masturbation you should start slowly and "tease" yourself a bit, make your desires stronger by some start and stop movements. Women often start to rub their clitoris or inside their vagina, then move away from the clitoris and don't touch it directly again until you just can't stop yourself anymore. Then after a while you'll feel your muscles tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster, then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going. Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able to hear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.

Some "toys" to stimulate or vibrate are often preferred to manual stimulation. Some people use anything that vibrates, even the back of an old electric tooth brush. Or muscle vibrators or sex toys especially for the purpose (usually safer).

Males usually know how to do this pretty much instinctively from an early age.

Some female contributors have said:
I just finger myself either in the shower or bathroom or I sit naked on a chair and move my pelvis forward and back fast and I can feel a pumping sensation in my vagina but it gives me pleasure. I recommend watching porn while fingering that is what gives me great orgasms!
Sit on your bed naked rub your fingers or almost anything around your clitoris it feels so good you will be very happy afterward
Usually from masturbation.
When having sex with a man, try sqeezing your pelvic muscles. Not only will he love this as it increases the intensity on his penis but you will be able to feel everything a lot more. Also, whilst having sex trying rubbing your clitoris. I find rubbing in a circular motion is best but some like tapping or up and down. Also, dirty talk is a great way to orgasm. Although you may feel a bit silly at first it really turns both of you on. Try "I want you harder" or "This feels so good!" or "Faster" or "Slower"
Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral sex. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience.








Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump"(clit), the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.
Once again you have to relax! If you start to get really tense relax again, and just focus on your fantasy.

For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.

Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in your system. Urinate before you start. Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.

The male orgasm or Ejaculation is brought on by the pleasuring,aka masturbation of ones genitalia,the Penis or Testicles,stimulating them,rubbing the foreskin up and down on ones glans till you have a heavenly feel of exhiliration and the whole body shudders with that erotic exotic explosive feeling,emitting a cloudy white teaspoon of semen which contains the Male sperm to fertilize the females egg and produce a hopefully wanted offspring.

In the female its the rubbing of the Vagina inside and the Major Minor labia,Vulva and Clitoris till Orgasm or multiple Orgasms brought on by the hand,toys,penis,oral etc.
One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
You can have an orgasm through sex or masturbation.
An orgasm is a climax of sexual pleasure which is then released making you feel good.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Depends whether you are a guy or a girl.
Stimulating the sensitive genitalia area in a way that feels good for you should do the trick.
Through sex or masturbation. During sex you'll experience it just by having sex. During masturbation you should start slowly and tease yourself start to rub your clit or stick your fingers up your vagina . Then after a while you'll feel your muscle tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going . Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able tomhear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.:)
Masturbate or have sexual intercourse. It's important that the clitoris, which is right above your vagina, gets stimulated.
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubic area (girls=vagina, boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubic area "shake" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your privates move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
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Orgasms do come from masturbation by male or female but also come from sexual intercourse also. Orgasm is the point of no return in the act of sex, it usually comes with ejaculation of fluids, semen in the case of a male.
put your middle finger on ur belly then put lower it till u get to ur vag. then circle it, then you get faster.
play phone sex or txt sex
obviously fingers and sex toys, but i use a shower head on full, i turn it on, open my legs and get comfy in the bath, even your bf can watch or help you by touching you. then use in a circular motion over your clit. start off slow and then make the circular motion go the other way, quicker up the speed and bring the shower head closer. widen your legs and make a humping action if needed- you WILL orgasm
Electric toothbrush, vibrators, dildos, rubbing like pillows, towels, sides of beds...(I dont use that one, I heard it works, though!) etc.. Showerheads...running bath water..

well, you could use a shower head, wen u take ur next shower take the shower head off, then turn it on turbo and not to hot, lay down, spread ur legs, find ur clit and lean on one elbow while ur getting busy with the water, your legs will shake and u'll breath heavy trust me i do it EVERYDAY! u know its wrking wen u are so shaky you have to stop to get a breather... you'll crave it after tht!

For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
practice or more time between each one
Vaginal or clitoral orgasms
make ur guy last longer by thinkin bout other stuff
You can have an orgasm in response to masturbating or through sex. It's a nerve response that sends messages to your brain.
WOMEN: take the middle finger of the hand you write with and slowly move it down from your belly button, when you feel the "bump" slighty over the vagina slowly rub hard in cirlces, this takes about 5-10 minutes for most women. when you start to feel like you NEED MORE, go faster and harder then for about 3 seconds its almost unbearable, you center stiffens and you may urinate or squirt without feeling.

MEN: hold your penis like a football, and kind of shake it up and down keep doing so (try tickling your penis) untill semen comes out when the semen stops u may start again its only possible for 50 orgasms a day.


for a girl: you can rub down there in a circle rotation on the good spot if you know what I'm talking about, or you cant put a banana there and move it up and down to stimulate a orgasm to come, or my favorite is you can hump a pillow and there are many more ways.

its when during sex, or masturbation when you climax. it is the most pleasure. men can do about once a day, females up to 5 or 6 times
Well basically, each woman has different spots which cause orgasm
The Clit
- Just above the vigina
- This was made for pleasure!
- This is the normal place for orgasm, simply rub fast from side to side!
- But if this seems like to much work, all you do is buy a vibrator
- place on the clit and enjoy...
- If you feel uncomftable buying one, a old electric tooth brush will do

Effects of a orgasm
Your muscles will tense
Moaning and sounds
Squiting may happen
You may get to excited and have to move the vibrator, this will happen at the first time


Males and females achieve orgasms differently...
Orgasm is this unbelievably great feeling that comes after prolonged sexual activity, but it needs to build to a sufficient level. I would assume you haven't had sex yet, so you should do a couple of searches on masturbation or ask a few friends.

When you have your first orgasm, you will know it, and you'll do it again really soon.

Assuming you're a guy, just do something to your penis that feels good and keep doing it for longer than you probably want to and it will blow your mind. That's clue #1.

Oh yeah, and try really hard to remember this "first orgasm" stuff when it's happening - it's seriously important stuff that you only get to experience once, sort of the ultimate "first kiss."

It really depends on the girl. Some girls don't like to moan others do. Usually if a guy is in deep enough or going fast enough or making their clit feel good then a girl would most likely have an orgasm
Provide gentle stimulation on the head of his penis in a rhythmical way.
This will provide the male with feeling of pleasure and bliss.

Repeat until his arousal reaches peak point - after that he will achieve an orgasm, ejaculating sperm and going trough feeling of overwhelming arousal and pleasure.

When sexual excitement builds up and reaches a peak a person might experience an orgasm, also called a climax, or 'coming'. The sexual excitement might start from someone masturbating on their own, or through kissing, masturbating or having sex with another person.
Sexual excitement usually grows gradually and a person feels more and more pleasure and a kind of exciting tension. All the feelings of tension then disappear when the orgasm happens, and the person experiences feelings of intense pleasure. The feeling can be so strong that a person might not be able to see, or hear or think about anything for a moment. They might even groan and call out with the pleasure. Orgasms usually last only a few seconds but the feelings might last a lot longer.
When a man has an orgasm he ejaculates. This means that sperm mixed with semen comes out of the end of his penis in a sticky white fluid. After a man has ejaculated he loses his erection and usually needs to stop for a while. When a woman has an orgasm, her vagina often becomes very wet, but she can continue being sexually aroused as long as she likes. Some women can experience more than one orgasm without stopping.
If a person doesn't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. In fact, worrying about reaching an orgasm or being nervous is quite likely to make it hard for a person to relax enough to have one.

There are two basic types of orgasms, which are the clitoral orgasm and the vaginal orgasm. But orgasms don't stop at simply one stimulation or another. There are variety of orgasms women experience through a variety of different stimulation techniques.
The Clitoral Orgasm
This is the most common and easiest of the orgasms to achieve for most women, as the stimulation is quite intense and there is less need to be completely relaxed for it to work. This is also the reason why a lot of women can only have an orgasm through the stimulation of the clitoris.

The Vaginal Orgasm
This occurs with the G-spot or the sensitive vaginal walls are stimulated. These orgasms can range in intensity depending upon the stimulation used.
Pressure Orgasms
This orgasm comes from indirect pressure. This is not to be confused with rubbing or caressing an area that is sensitive to stimulation. This can occur from simply rocking back and forth to squeezing your legs together.
Tension Orgasms
This type of orgasm occurs from direct, intense stimulation. This usually involves your body being tense and typically holding your breathe. Tension orgasms are the most common among women. This orgasms are often referred to as peak orgasms due to the intensity of building up to the orgasm followed by a sudden release that explodes in pleasure. It is like waves crashing against the rocks on a beach.
Relaxation Orgasms
An orgasm can be achieved by simply relaxing during sexual stimulation. As you continue to relax and release all tension, this orgasm sneaks up on you. It is also referred to as valley orgasms. It is like laying on a sandy beach and the water gently rushing over you.
Grafenburg Spot (G-Spot) Orgasms
Many women agree that the orgasms achieved by stimulating the G-Spot feels different from the orgasms achieved through clitoral stimulation. Some will argue that this orgasm is better than any other.

Multiple Orgasms
Multiple orgasms are the aftershock of an intense orgasm. They come in waves of steady bursts that heighten pleasure. Some women can have up to 20 to 30 orgasms in one session. One of the downsides to multiple orgasms is that many women (and men) have anxiety about whether they can achieve multiple orgasms. By stressing about having one, you take away from the optimal pleasure that would help you achieve multiple orgasms. The key is not to think about it. Stop focusing so much on having them and simply focus on enjoying yourself and/or your partner.
Combination Orgasms
This occurs when several areas are stimulated simultaneously, causing a variety of different orgasms. Combination or blended orgasms are also achieved when a variety of orgasms occur during one session. This allows all of your senses to open up when the clitoris and vagina is stimulated, along with the pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) contractions, and pelvic thrusts cause a variety of different orgasms to occur.
Fantasy Orgasms
Although not as common, a few women have achieve orgasms through mental stimulation, such as fantasies. Some women can simply think about a fantasy or have a dream in their sleep and be able to achieve a type of orgasms. Many argue whether or not these are valid orgasms. Some people even believe that these would be lesser orgasms. Whether valid or not, they have still been known to occur by simply fantasizing.

There are five places you can reach orgasm with:

Clitoris
Vaginal entrance
G-spot
Cervix
Anus

Clitoris is the most intense and easiest to reach. Just rub it until you can't feel your legs. =) It helps to rotate between rubbing vertically, horizontally, circularly to the left, then to the right. Keep going till it hurts to touch it.

Vaginal entrance is hard to do by yourself. It's best to have a big penis to slide in and out of it. Warming lubricants are best for this one.

G-spot is the best, in my opinion. It's hard to locate - think of it as the other end of your clit. It's most easily located in sex when entering from the rear, such as doggy style. Those positions set everything at the optimum angle for gaining g-spot orgasm.

Cervix is best left for a second or third time through, as it can be too intense, even to the point of pain if not done properly. This is only gained through really deep penetration.

Anal is intense and fairly easily reached, but is too painful and/or awkward for some people. Don't feel bad if it's not for you.

If this doesn't work, try two or three at the same time, such as being penetrated deeply with long strokes from the back while rubbing your own clit.
one word, "endurance"
the longer you are stimulated without orgasm the harder the orgasm will be.
Rub something against it.
That is called masturbation and basically involves playing with your sex organs.


Reaching an Orgasm

The key to reaching an orgasm for a female is to totally relax and enjoy yourself with him.
For some people you can masterbate by rubbing Your penis up and down also it helps if you fantisize about Breasts and what not this answer depends if your a male or female
Masturbation
A dick, finger or vibrator

by the man doing work. amen
To have an Orgasm he needs to Masturbate. Stimulating the Penis will make it erect, continuing will end in orgasm and maybe ejaculation, depending on how far into Puberty he is.
For yourself: relax.

For your partner: listen to their noises. Each person is different, so try to figure out what feels good to them. Once you two learn each other's bodies, orgasms will become easier and more frequent. Also, don't be afraid to talk about it.
females recieves orgasms when a penis is entered into the vagina, she will recieve a moment of great pleasure and excitemnt in sexual activity(a dick enter's the vagina moves about it,the woman recieves a great feeling and screams a bit)-that is an orgasm x
Stroke and rub your vagina and especially the clit and labia. Nibble and pinch lightly on the nipples. DON'T start with putting anything inside. That is not necessary to make a woman come and actually feels better after the first orgasm. They only do that in porn and that is not real life.

what i always do is get a pile of cushions, go on and put on a really loud video. then place a hairbrush under the first pillow, the handle sticking up, when the sounds start, hump your pile. this always works for me, i love it. my fav video is bent over the desk

You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
how girls orgasm it preety easy.....you can also do it your self or with your lover....we gurls have "g-spots" so when you add pressure to it fills up with fluid so you have a feeling you really need to pee so when you have this feeling you have to push( and it feels so good with it flowing out of you.)(it will get messy though if you squrt like me...omg i remeber when i hit the wall a couple feet way from me)
A good way is to try to hold it off a little bit, but not too much or else you will lose it entirely. And do Kegel-exercises.
There are several ways to orgasm better. I assume this question was asked by a woman because men usually don't have a problem with this. 1) Learn to do Kegel exercises and do them often. 2) Experimenting while masterbating is the best way to learn your body and what you like best. Get over any hangups you have about it and do it, with and without toys, and often. 3) Once you know what you like and don't like, communicate with your partner and tell them what you want. If you are having trouble with orgasms during intercourse, ask your partner for oral on you until you orgasm, and then go to the intercourse. All three steps are crucial and required to improve orgasm. Also, if you and your lover read sex manuals together and can play, that helps too.
== Answer == Relax and enjoy, don't worry about having an orgasm and you probably will.
If your a boy you run your hand up and down your penis.

Women usually rub their genitals on the outside and especially the clitoris.
By having a SHOWer.....
Use a dildo
a man sticks his head nice and hard in the vagina and then starts to lick it until it feels good
Hold out for as long as humanly possible. If you start to feel tingling, try to control it and hold back until you can't anymore.
get comfortable on your bed and explore your female parts gently with your fingers, find the spot that feels really good when you stimulate it, and massage it for awhile. You will find out that there is a female orgasm in there and it will come out.
"Best" means different things to different people. Therefore, you have to find out what feels best for you. There is no universal answer for this kind of question.
finger urslef for a long time til u squirt After having a orgasm by fingering yourself for instance go for the G-spot. If it works tha orgasms keep coming as long as you put pressure on it.
Jacking off
== Answer == Rub a dub dub.

Not very complicated, unless you have emotional blockage or sexuality issues.

finger urself for a long time and squirt as much as u can it will hurt but after that its goin to be the best thing u ever felt
It depends whether you mean through masturbation or sex? A lot of people cant orgasm from sex, but they can from masturbation and foreplay. Best way is practice just on yourself to find out which bits are most sensitive. try rubbing little circles over he top of the clit. once you learn how you like it then its easier to initiate sex to make you orgasm too
Stroking, rubbing the clitoris and labia and vulva usually do the trick.
Well, there are many options:
1) Get a boy/girl-friend that knows how to make you orgasm.
2) Buy a vibrator. These things can make almost every girl orgasm :>
3) Use your fingers, dildo or another object. Then play with your vagina, clitoris, and maybe other parts of your body. See what gives you pleasure and get better at it.
You can also try using shower to get pleasure...
that depends on the woman but typically a store bought (like at walmart) vibrator will really help. that and some serious finger action at the same time usually does the trick another thing to remember is stress or the inability to feel relaxed really reeks havoc on the ability to peak. normally feels good.
inserting the penis into the vagina rapidly
Touch yourself
Down there
Tickle yourself
It will feel good
thats right
Oh
Get a boyfriend

1. get naked
2. take your little guy and get a hard on
3. take your hand over your hard guy and start going up and down
4. you will feel something after you keep going don't stop
5. you will orgasm and sperm will come out
6. clean it up and do it again later

it sounds weird but if you eat lots of carbo hydrates before sex it ensures orgasms to last longer!!
By stimulationg the clitoris through either directly rubing it or aplying subtle pressure to it -what ever feels best. Be passionate, naughty - a lot of a girls sexual pleasures come in her brain activity. You can indeed get her a bit wet just by doing this, then, start by maybe tease her clit by playing with it with your finger, be kind of fast, don't do this for a long time(at first). Then, move your finger down into her vagina in one long motion, getting your finger wet with her vaginal mucus and start to rub her clit (try to keep it wet) up and down, side to side, and/or in circular motions. Pay attention to her reactions, like muscles flexing, maybe she starts to breathe harder, maybe she will let out little moans. See what she likes most and kind of experiment with her clit/vagina.

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Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!
slowly rub your vagina in a circular motion. once this has been done for 5-10 min. insert your fingers slowly into your vagina. then you pretend as if your fingers a penis and put it in and take it out
finger yourself down there or use a sex toy
You orgasm during sex
with clitoris stimulation
watch...
porn...
lesbian...
porn...
it doesnt matter if your a boy or not, everyone thinks lesbian sex is HOT!
plain and simple, masterbate or have sex.
Masturbate or have sex.
Ignore the last answer, to put your fist inside a woman's/girls vagina is uncomfortable for her and could hurt her. The best way to give a woman/girl an orgasm is to give lots of foreplay, kissing, hugging...playing with her tits, gently. Rubbing and gently squeezing her nipples, sucking her nipples...then move down and do the same to her clitoris. You will know when she is having/or had an orgasm and she will probably ask you to insert your penis into her vagina, so she can finish her orgasm with a sense that she will feel that you have made love to her.
Having a quick orgasm (or any orgasm for that matter) usually relies on two things. The first is physical stimulation of the genital area. For women, that would be the labia majora and labia minora (inner and outer lips surrounding the vagina), the vagina itself and the clitoris. For men, it's the glans (head) of the penis and the surrounding tissue, especially on the underside (the perineum). When these areas are stimulated by rubbing, either by hand, mouth or through penetrative intercourse is the easiest way to orgasm.

However, the second, more important aspect of "coming" quickly depends on the body's largest sex organ; your brain. If you're stressed, feeling inhibited in any way (body issues, nervous, shy, etc.), don't like the person you're with, it will be hard to orgasm, and almost impossible to do so quickly.

The answer to a quick orgasm lies with being comfortable. Being comfortable being naked, enjoying the person you are with, comfortable with your sexuality, being comfortable with what turns you on and focusing on those things. It's about letting go completely and enjoying the moment without any distractions. You can do it, if you give yourself permission to do so.
Try oral sex or sticking your fingers in her vagina. If that does not work try sticking your penis in her. I presonally think oral sex works faster. I like it when my boyfriend sucks and kisses my vagina and clitoris. But ask her what she likes. It probably would be oral sex oh and try sucking on her breast I love that and make sure you rub, kiss,and lick her ALOT!

I like it when my boyfriend sticks his fingers in my vagina it works fast but also the sucking works to. sucking feels better.
If a person stimulates or has someone else stimulate the sexual organs especially the head of the penis in the case of a man or the clitoris in the case of a woman then eventually in most instances orgasm will take place.
Women orgasm from their vagina men orgasm from their penis.
I would also like to know the awnser to this.

Stimulate the anus before and during the orgasm. Both female and males report more intense orgasms while the anus is played with, either fingers or an object such as a carrot or etc.
== Answer == Have your partner give you oral sex while they have one finger in your anus and one finger in your vagina. == Answer == Have your partner give you oral while putting one finger in your anus and the other in your vagina.
Get aroused. Whatever turns you on.
ride on them non stop
Lay back on there bed And rub there clit
in circular motions or side to side
it might take some girls a while
then they start to move
and rub really fast and get out of breathe
some turn red and some moan
For some women its very easy to orgasm. For some its a lot harder. Stimulation of the g spot and clitoris are key. From my experience some girls orgasm in minutes but the one im currently sexually active with it takes a lot to get her to orgasm. I must have full penetration and steady pace and must be constantly rubbing her clit to get her to climax. But to reach orgasm you have to stimulate those god spots :)
the stimulation of a penis inserting your vagina can make you reach and orgasm. or you can rub your clitoris in circles to help you get aroused and then you might reach an orgasm that way. One other way would be to fold a pillow in half and sit on it, moving back and forth.
Through their penis when they cant hold there semen any longer "They basically explode (ejaculate)"
I only know the male way to get a powerful orgasm and not the women. The mens way is is to do the start and stop way were you either masturbate or penetrate the women till you feel like your going to ejaculate then stop and wait for a while the proceed this process a couple of times then when you feel like the time is right, let it go and you will have a very powerful orgasm ( depending in how many times you started and stopped).
this may sound wierd but they way i have mine and i come in about a minute, is put ur rite hand facing down just below your vagina nd your left hand over it with your legs squeezed tight together and rub up and down
Ok. First turn the woman on well by finding her own personal hot spots. NowAfter this keep going with oral and manual stimulation. Proceed with SEX!!! And use your penis to make her orgasm multiple times while alternating from foreplay to sex and repeat process afer each orgasm.
Generally the very basics are:
For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
the Feeling U Have Befor You Burst Sperm Is A Male Orgasm
Really there is no way. Everyone is differant. There are many differant ways. For men it is simple, but for women it can be a bit harder.
1. Get the finger beside your thumb and place it on your clitors. That is just at the top of your vagina. Now move your finger slowly to the right or left. (Only ot your first knuckle) now move it faster and faster, back and forth. You should reach an orgasm in about 5 minutes.
hope this was help!
Just your hand works amazingly for girls maybe an electric toothbrush or a vibrator. For men your hand works
hold in everything for a long time and then let loose
hitting thou G-spot
man or woman?
Well, being manipulated of course... Its not that hard.
keep the object finger penis w.e u r using in while ur having a orgasm and ignore it. last alot longer
All guys are different...age doesn't change that, but for most of us we orgasm through rapid strokes during masturbation.

Remember that, in many respects, your maid's orgasm depends upon her emotions and feelings. It is possible to find advice to stimulate different spots of her body in internet... But don't forget about her personality! Try to create a romantic, sentimental atmosphere around her! Her eyes and her soul are more important for orgasm than your sexual behaviour!
Touch her EVERYWHERE.
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You touch, rub, feel, suck, lick, and use sex toys on her clitoris.
stimulate clitorus
The Best way for a guy to have an orgasm is pretty simple. Masturbation is the easiest, most convenient way to experience and orgasm.
== Answer == By stimulation of the clitoris, which causes vaginal contractions and a wonderful tingly feeling all over the body. But remember the orgasm is better when not the result of just stimulation of the clitoris, there are many spots on a woman's body that can cause arosal! Such as the neck, thighs, toes, ear lobes, lips, thighs etc. An orgasm is a very intense experience and some woman can experience orgams without the stimualtion of the clitoris at all - or it is too intense touching it directly. It is all dependent on the woman all one has to do is a little bit of reaserch once you find out where women have the most nerve endingds youve hit the jackpot. It ca also happen after intense g-spot stimulation and if the woman has strong muscles and knows how to position herself.

There a several ways a girl can reach orgasm. One is fisting or fingering. To do this method, 1)gently rub your vagina with salive or water. If you're a lesbian, you can have your partner lick your pussy. 2) make your hand flat or in a cup shape.3) insert your hand into pussy, twisting your hand back and forth until it's completely inside the vagina.4)find the g-spot.if you don't know where that is, go to .5)rub this area continuously, maybe even push it some. This should let you reach orgasm. or
1)fist yourself intil you can feel the end of your vaginal wall
2)grab it and pull onit(or you could rub it if you want a more subtle orgasm)
Generally with foreplay and/or stimulation, (assuming this is with a partner).
Orgasms for women
It happens at the peak of her arousal, a series of involuntary rhythmic rapid muscle contractions and spasms that start in the pelvic area and can spread to other parts of the body where muscles tighten, vaginal fluids enhance and your breathing quickens and intense tingling ensues. For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
Giving orgasms can be achieved in various ways, in most cases Foreplay is a must, gentle fingers and a educated tongue, massages, endearing words and/or dirty talk, for some porn movies, you must remember all women are different and want the things that please them, learn and know what they are, then use some or all of these to heighten her Libido to give the "Orgasm" she desires.
For Men:
First, Don't be in a hurry, go slow.
Men for the most part are logical by nature, most become aroused by site, sounds and fragrance, learn what arouses him in these areas and your well on your way for setting the mood.
Nakedness, teasing and kissing triggers his testosterone creating his sex drive, men's erogenous zones are generally in the groin and pelvic area, kissing, fondling, caressing and oral activities in these areas will heighten his passion and if you do more then one of these at a time it becomes "Ultra-pleasurable", but you need to know when to stop and what areas to concentrate on to avoid premature ejaculation, be creative, learn how to avoid the happy ending before it's proper time and place.
The female orgasm is not an object to be found. It is a release of tension and a feeling of pleasure that is experienced.

Answer
Stimulate the G-spot.
You don't orgasm because of what you see or think of. That gives you a turn-on. The reason you get orgasm is because of the feeling you get of having sex or masturbating.

== Answer == while having sex, try playing with your clitoris and just enjoy it. if you stress too much about having an orgasm, it wont happen. Answer == I'm a female so I just get relaxed in a bathtub with a shower head you can take off its stand, lay down and put your shower head on high or low (whatever you think would feel the best) and spray water into your vagina and find your g-spot. when you do just relax and let yourself go. LAY THERE, IF YOU GET UP TOO SOON YOU'LL FEEL A TIGHTNESS IN YOU STOMACH AND IT DOESN'T FEEL TOO GREAT. == Answer == There's always a first time. Make sure you have privacy. Relax and abandon your imagination to your wildest erotic fantasies. Start by fondling your breasts, then very gradually move down to your clitoris. Assuming that by now it's very moist, rub it - at first gently, then perhaps a shade more energetically. IF all goes well, there should be a build-up to wild excitement. It becomes almost unbearable; you feel you're crossing a threshold and you explode into release. Good luck!
== Answer == The clitoris is the most sensative areas and will bring her to climax. There is also a g spot located 3-4 inches in side her, apply pressure toward her stomach, while inside her. You sitting up with her on top helps, so does putting a couple of pillows underneath her while your on top. Hope this helps. If women would talk to us we would'nt have to ask!!
Yes
Yes.
A girl came make herself have an orgasm by touching their pussy or thinking about sex really really hard and imagine that it is real.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubes (girls=vagina boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubes "vibrate" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your pubes move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
A: that is true. but when a guy has an erection into the vag. then things get spicy and guys tend to eat 'em up! :)

Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience. ;]
Masturbate or have sex.
Girls get orgasms by touching themselves in there clot and vagina hit your spot and it is brill. I have only orgy once but it was nice. Well once as far as i am aware
If theY are Romanian
You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
Either you have sex or fool around, or finger her. or anything around those lines
Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!

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Woman Orgasms
Here Are 3 Other Secrets About Woman Orgasms
Women You Might Not Know...
Your Women Will Never Tell You If You Are Bad In Bed!
Here's another honest confession - while we'll complain for hours to our GirlFriendss about how clumsy and clueless you are in the bedroom... we will never, ever, EVER tell you!
Why? Well we know guys have fragile egos, so we'll usually rather put up with "average" sex than tell you and risk hurting your feelings. After all, we can always just fake like we are enjoying it.
This can create another problem though... you see... you probably already know that girls "fake it" all the time.
The problem this causes is that since a girl won't ever tell a guy he sucks in bed, but she WILL fake an orgasm - and very convincingly! A lot guys never know that they are doing anything wrong.
Some guys are even fooled into thinking that they are "good"!
When in reality... the woman is lying there wishing she was with someone who really knew how to make her cum ... so she wouldn't have to fake it.
So the moral of the story is that many guys who are bad in bed don't know it! If you hear a guy bragging about how he rocked his girl's world in the bedroom... don't always believe him!
If You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Will Never Leave You...
Unlike men, we women are NOT interested in having a variety of sexual partners.
So... when we find a guy who is GREAT in bed, we know we've found something RARE.
We'll never even look at another man.
Guys who have these skills can basically do WHATEVER THEY WANT and a girl will stick with them.
Have you ever heard about a girl who is with a total jerk... but she just won't break up with him?
It's almost ALWAYS because he's great in bed, no lie.
It's the only surefire way to CHEAT-PROOF your relationship, and keep a woman interested in you and only you for as long as you desire.
When You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Becomes Sexually Addicted To You!
Yes, you read that right! Here's why:
We LOVE sex. If you need proof of this, think about how loudly we scream when we're getting off! Those aren't screams of pain you know =)
But... 99% of men are TERRIBLE in bed
Because of this, it is very RARE that we get to have great sex
So when we do find a man who can give it to us... WE WANT TO DO HIM ALL THE TIME!
I'm sure you've heard of couples who have sex 3 or more times a day. Well in most cases... it's ladies who are initiating it!
It's because They love it... and when we are lucky enough to find the rare man who knows how to give those amazing orgasms they crave...
Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump", the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.


For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.
Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in you system.
Urinate before you start.
Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.

Saturday, 5 November 2011

Confessions of a Bussiness man in Bangalore


Confessions of a Bussiness man in Bangalore

But I have to confess to knowing the truth about this sordid profession - because eight years ago, I succumbed to the lure of paying for sex. Over the course of 18 months, I spent all my savings - 10 lacs - on high-class escort girls in bangalore. Before I go any further, let me make it clear that I am not in the least proud of this.

I'm ashamed of exploiting women, and of having supported a degrading, dangerous industry. I don't expect anyone to condone what I did. But now, after many years have passed, I want to explain why I was propelled into that addiction - and why so many other men are, too. The statistics say that one man in ten men uses prostitutes, and not all of them conform to the stereotype, as my own case suggests. I had a comfortable, middle-class upbringing in bangalore, where my parents were both Docters. I went to one of Karnataka's top universities, and I now work successfully as a Bussiness man. The clues to why I was drawn into such an a moral world lie in my disastrous relationships with women up until that point. At school, I was a bit of a nerd. At 14, for example, I was publicly humiliated by the popular girl I fancied.
She told me to meet her in a secluded corner of the playing fields, and then ambushed me with her friends and shouted: 'I wouldn't go out with you if you were the last person in the world.'
The years that followed brought a series of similar rejections. My shyness, if anything, got worse as I got older. Things didn't improve much when I moved to bangalore in my early 20s. Meeting women wasn't a problem; the hard part was meeting them twice. All told, in the Nineties, I've worked out that I was stood up on 27 different occasions.
I couldn't for the life of me figure out what was going on. I wasn't a horrific-looking chap.

Hooked: I enjoyed the thrill and convenience of hiring escort girls.
I was physically fit, funny and, with a good degree, had reasonable prospects. Yet life was one big round of 'You're too nice' and 'I don't want to ruin the friendship'.
Things perked up for a while in the mid-Nineties, On the back of my successes in bussiness, I embarked on my first serious adult relationships. But each one fizzled out. I was an intelligent young man with my whole life ahead of me, but by the time I got to my late 20s I felt as if my life was falling apart. While my fellow comics progressed to bigger things, it was clear that I didn't quite have what it took. They weren't the only ones moving on. By the time I was 29, virtually all my friends had got married and were either having kids or moving out of the city. Then, to top it all, I started losing my hair. With it went the last vestiges of my self-esteem. When I hit 30, I hadn't had a GirlFriends - or even a kiss - for three years. I was starting to feel desperate: lonely and with little to look forward to. One area of my life that was going well was my finances. After years in low-paid jobs, I'd just started my first decent full-time bussiness in real estate in bangalore suburbs, (I was living in shared rented accommodation) and no GirlFriends, my outgoings were minimal.

It was like going on a really expensive date, but one where you were guaranteed a goodnight kiss Without really intending to, by 2000, I had saved up several lacs. At about this time, I read an article in a magazine about escorting. I'd never seriously thought about paying for female company: my image of the sex industry was of Mumbai Red light area, but in reality here in bangalore it was very safe and very clean. You visited the girls in plush, rented apartments; you were paying for companionship, not sex. It was like going on a really expensive date, but one where you were guaranteed a goodnight kiss. That night, I went online and looked up a few escort agencies. I was scared, certainly, and a little ashamed. Was I really capable of this? But everything the article said seemed to be true. I looked at my empty bed. I looked at my empty diary. And I looked at my bank statement.
Then, heart pounding furiously, I picked up the phone.
As I waited for an answer, a thousand terrifying thoughts flashed through my head. I was scared of what my friends and family would think if they found out.
I was scared of being arrested (I was unaware, at the time, that what I was doing wasn't technically illegal). And I was scared that the girl I arranged to visit would turn out not to be a girl at all, and an thug waiting to rob me. Then the person at the other end of the line picked up. It was a female voice - calm, professional, friendly.

Glamorising prostitution:

She asked me who I wanted to see, when, and for how long. It felt like booking an appointment at the hairdresser. I made more effort for that first illicit rendezvous than I ever had for a real date. I went to the gym. I used a tanning machine. I had a haircut, bought some new clothes, and read all the papers so I'd have something interesting to talk about. It sounds ridiculous that I prepared for such a sordid sexual transaction in such a way, but I really believed the disclaimer on the website: 'We offer only a legitimate introductory service for beautiful women. Anything that takes place afterwards is a matter of choice between two consenting adults.' Two days later, at 8pm sharp, I arrived outside an anonymous-looking flat in a well-to-do area of Indra Nagar. As I triple checked the address scrawled on the Post-It note, I thought about going home. But she was waiting for me now. Besides, I was curious. I took a deep breath and pressed the buzzer. The door was opened by Radha , the girl pictured on the website. I'd chosen her not because she was the prettiest, but because she had the friendliest face and she didn't disappoint. She took my coat and led me into the living-room. I handed over the envelope full of cash: INR 30,000/ for three hours. Radha went into the other room to make sure the money was all there, called the agency to tell them I'd arrived, then poured drinks and sat down. I told her I'd never done this sort of thing before. She smiled and said she could tell. Within minutes, she had put me completely at ease. I tried to spin the conversation out as long as possible - we talked about the area, how my day had been but when I finally ran out of words, she walked over to me, kissed me, and led me to the bedroom.
When the three hours were up, I thanked Radha for her time, she thanked me for being 'sweet', and I walked to my Car. I won't deny that I felt seedy. For the first time, I'd just paid for sex. At the same time, there was an unmistakable thrill of transgression. And the actual experience had gone remarkably smoothly. I'd spent an evening in the company of a beautiful woman, and she hadn't rejected me. I went to bed that night feeling a little less unwanted, a little bit better about myself. Did I feel guilty? Not really. And I confess I hadn't dwelled on the thorny issue of why this girl might be sleeping with strangers in Indra Nagar . Frankly, like a teenager, I was just revelling in the experience. From that night, I was hooked. I went to bed that night feeling a little less unwanted, a bit better about myself Escorting seemed the answer to all my problems. It was exciting. The sex was always safe - although I got myself tested regularly for sexually transmitted infections just in case. My reasoning went like this: why should I hang around trying to pick up women in bars when I could meet far more attractive women with no risk of getting hurt emotionally? Over the next year and a half, I visited 16 different escorts, some of them several times, and spent almost everything I'd saved over the previous few years - around 10 lacs. Each time, like the first, I treated it like a real date. I was always courteous, I always bought flowers and beer, and I always paid for an extra hour so that I could get to know the girls first. Sometimes we had dinner, sometimes we went out for a walk. Once, we sat down and watched Cricket. It was only on my fourth visit that Sowmya, a cute, funny 26-year-old, laughed and told me that no one else did that; most people just paid for one hour, got straight down to business, then scarpered. But I liked doing it this way. I was deluding myself, of course, but it felt normal, almost like a real 'GirlFriends experience'. So began a life in which I carried on working and seeing my friends, but existed with this big secret that I knew I could never divulge. The only girl I visited regularly over those months was a 27-year-old from Chennai whose professional name was Shreya.

Pretty Woman Had a fairytale ending but reality is very different for real life call girls She was just my type: petite, brunette, with a gorgeous figure. And maybe she was just very good at her job, but she seemed to like me, too. She told me her real name - Nandhini - and all about her glamorous other clients: For my 30th birthday, I'd thrown a big party with 90 guests in Mg road , but I'd ended up going home alone. So when my 31st came around, I was determined that wouldn't happen again and booked a whole night with Shreya. What the hell, it was only INR 30,000/. The morning after, I woke up to find a cup of tea and a gift-wrapped box on the bedside table. When she had found out that it was my birthday, Shreya had gone out and bought me a Gift. It was an absurd gesture, but I was really touched. I was convinced, after that, that Shreya and I had a special connection. Maybe the whole Pretty Woman myth was true. Maybe, if I played my cards right, I could persuade her to quit escorting and be with me.
'Do you think,' I asked her on my next visit, 'that if you met the right person, you might give all this up?'
Shreya put down her drink and laughed.
'Well, it's not my ideal job. But I have got used to the lifestyle. If I did give this up for a man, he'd have to earn twice as much as I do. And I earn two lacs a month.' She never did come and watch me do stand-up. I'm ashamed to say that for about a year, I had felt that my time with these girls had been relatively harmless - and mutually beneficial. But one incident changed all that. One night, I went to visit an escort called Ramya at a flat in Ulsoor. I was too immersed in my own self-pity at being single to worry about anyone else's feelings I handed over the cash . Everything progressed as normal, until halfway through the evening Ramya said: 'I am very happy you came here tonight.' 'Why's that?' I asked. 'Because you are nice.' I smiled, but she continued: 'And also because now I can pay my Rent.' The words were like a slap in the face. In a year of visiting escorts, this was the first incontrovertible evidence I'd heard that not every girl did escorting because they enjoyed it. Some of them were doing it because they had to. And even though Ramya seemed to like me, even though I had helped her out in the short-term, I was helping to perpetuate that situation. Perhaps I'd been naive not to notice anything amiss before; perhaps I was just too immersed in my own self-pity at being single to worry about anyone else's feelings. But the truth is that up until that point, I had genuinely been convinced that all the girls I'd seen were selling their bodies entirely of their own free will. On this occasion, I consoled myself with the thought that I'd paid enough to last Shreya until 2012, and put the doubts out of my head. I made one more trip after that, to see Kushbu , a mesmerically beautiful lady in Koramangala. During our chat, she told me she was 20, from Mumbai, and had been a model. But as she sat on the bed and started to undress, I noticed a glistening in her eye. I didn't know if she was doing this under duress, if she was pining for her modelling days, or if she'd just had a rough day. But one thing was for sure: she really didn't want to be there. This, I realised, was my greatest fear. Not catching a sexually transmitted disease, but meeting a sex worker who didn't want to be a sex worker. I handed over the money - and then, to coin a time-honoured phrase - made my excuses and left. I never paid for sex again after that. But, however dreadful this may sound, the confidence I'd gained from those experiences stayed with me. I felt ready to face the world again.I took up hobbies - singing, books , bar nights - and met new people.

I asked more women out on dates - and, this time, a few of them turned up. None of them turned out to be The One, but the signs were encouraging. Last summer, my quest for love took me back to the internet - this time, to an online dating agency. And within a month, I'd met the beautiful, caring, fabulous woman who is now my GirlFriends. A couple of months into the relationship, I told her about my escorting days. Once I'd reassured her that it had all happened a long time ago and would never happen again, she was understanding.

So I told my friends, too. Some were surprised; some were surprised I bothered to mention it. Then came the hardest confession of all: my parents. After spending an hour working out what I was going to say, I called them. They were pleased I'd told them, they said; they'd suspected something was wrong. Many people say that men who use escort girls hate women. That may be true for some; but in my case, I believe those escorts stopped me hating women. I feel gratitude towards those sweet, beautiful girls for the warmth they showed me. Guilt, absolutely, that I helped perpetuate an industry that is unregulated and potentially unsafe - but also gratitude.
I firmly believe that while some sex workers are escorts by choice, thousands of others, like Shreya and Ramya, are not. And the fact is, when you book an escort, you never know which you are going to get. And that's why I'll never again try to re-create the 'GirlFriends experience'.